WEDDING! One such thing, which makes the life of some people, it also ruins some. Parents happily married after much effort with great expectations, especially of girls. But they themselves don’t even know what this marriage will bring in their life.
Those who have a happy and successful married life that’s great but what about those who do not have?
Does anyone think about them? Whether anyone does anything for her or not, but everyone has time to comment and blame for this.
There are some secret elements for a happy married life like
1. Trust
2. Care
3. Responsibility
4. Respect in all aspects (person, decision, career
and hobby)
5. Understanding
6. Support in every aspect (financial, moral,
emotion)
7. Compatibility
8. Love
If anyone is missing from the above we can compromise because the rest of all will balance that. But if most of the things are missing after that compromise is too much difficult. And because of that, we are not happy, cannot even do long term compromise. Try to start living alone but there is always a lack of those things. The fact is nobody actually cares about it. And fortunately, if we get that missing component from someone else, then people easily say that we are characterless.
There are two types of people in this world. The first one is for whom the marriage took place, whatever the life partner is, as it is just accepted and stay according to it. For them relationship, community, society matters most. For them, marriage is bearable until the women get the mark on his body. Second, are those educated people of progressive nature who give importance to self-respect and peace of mind for them just cut this relation and go ahead in your life if you are not happy anyhow and don’t want to compromise too. Life is full of opportunity so just move on.
So we have two options the one is to wait for the big blunder like the marks that affect too. much our life or the second one is to end this and move on.
Yes, Divorce is right: if couples are not happy in their married life because it’s not a contract that if you get married whether you live or die but can't break the relationship. Afterall whole life is concerned. Even both parties can do a legal contract. That I will do this this and if the one who breaks the rule then the next one will get the right to take the prior step against that. Don’t include any family members and friends of both parties in this contract. Because of their sentiments and partialities.
I am not saying that divorce is a must even initially when we have some misunderstandings in this relation we should sit together and talk to them about the issues. What is the root cause of all this?
Just try to seek out all these. But if
1. after many attempts, it’s not resolve
2. love doesn’t exist anymore
3. there is some kind of abusement & violence
So first of all be strong independent, especially on financial matters, after that you can take the prior action against it.
